POSITIONS OF MAN AND WOMAN IN A RELATIONSHIP

To my humble opinion, position for man and woman in a relationship are only different not one more inferior than the other.
So therefore it will be almost impossible to have a good intimacy when seeing yourself has a superior and your partner inferior. I know it is difficult to admit this but a good marriage is an act of self-denial, since we were born selfish persons.

Whatever the man pours into his wife, he will be able to reap whatever he desires. Just show her that you really care, give her attention, woman want their man to know even when they gained two kilos, or when they change the perfume, that will convince every woman that your eyes are still on them.

Here goes the three things that destroys marriages and create arguments:

-Family interference
-Finances
-Bad behavior

A language of love to your wife is the ability to listen to her, and she shouldn't be your purchased possession.
A woman what's someone that will listen to her, that is why man can talk even when they are standing, they can solve issues while standing, but when it comes to woman, is something in them, they arrange the chairs and talk. So now the difference comes where man whats to be praised and woman wants affection. They say the woman is the weaker vessel, yes that is scriptural but she is also the strength of the marriage because perfect strength is in the perfect weakness.

So the one who first gets the revelation of your position in the relationship must start acting on it.



Past. Harold Beckett

WHY RELATIONSHIPS DON'T LAST THESE DAYS?

WHY  RELATIONSHIPS DON'T LAST THESE DAYS?

The reason why we have so many broken relationships today is because people go into those relationships with high expectations. For you to be in a perfect relationship there must be Love involved, I mean Unconditional Love.

What I mean by that is for you to love the person beyond reasons, you shouldn't have a reason why you love the person that is what I mean. Because the day that reason will stop being, then you will stop loving, which I don't even call love at the first place.

-For those that love because He/She is Hot,all I can say is that He/She is not the Hottest, and by the time you meet someone better, you will just go.

-Same thing applies to money, He/She can loose the Job or the money, will you stop loving?

So I can take so many examples just to make it clear that unconditional love is not something you try but you produce it. So you should love your partner when is right or wrong regardless.

    My own definition of Divorce is:

-  Is the state of two selfish people living in the same house.

Lets avoid the word ME and start using the word US, because you will be pulling attention to yourself.

So I know what many woman go through, because their men can't see. She can put on a the new dress for him, or come from saloon with a new look but he can't see.

Likewise men also are battling with woman that can't hear. He will talk and talk but she can't listen.

So now woman say Man are bad and man say woman are bad, please consider this:

-It takes a bad woman to reveal the qualities of a good man, and it will take a bad man to reveal the qualities of a good woman.

This year my parents are celebrating their thirty years of marriage, which will appear to be a mission impossible for our generation. 

The secret is: When one of you goes up the other must come down. Even when you are right, let it go that time for the sake of the good mood and then when the atmosphere is fine you can take a walk or go in a restaurant to put things in place.

The reason of going out is because outside there will be no tension, you cant scream or shout inside a restaurant, but indoor I guarantee the atmosphere will not be good.

I wish you all the best in your relationship and I hope this little thought was of a help to you. The next topic will be about positions in the relationship.

Let me know if it works in your relationship.